ABOUT ME

Transformational Coach

My certifications in coaching and spiritual direction enable me to work with the whole of a person. We are multidimensional beings who need a holistic approach to truly transform to claim our best selves and lives. This involves looking at our innate character, personal obstacles, and deepest desires to intentionally embrace our whole selves. I welcome the opportunity to be a trusted growth partner whether you are wanting more from your career/life, needing to enhance leadership abilities in expanded role, or navigating after a significant life transition. With twenty years of coaching and a proven process, I will guide you in defining and achieving success in your career and life.

Part of my transformation and ultimately definition of success was to claim the whole of me. That included being a survivor turned thriver who embraced herself holistically and learned many healing practices in the process. This informs the coaching work that I do as well as the purpose-driven work that I describe below.

Ally

I apply my transformational coaching experience to work with survivors of abuse by guiding survivors to examine limiting beliefs, find strength in their unique gifts and abilities, and claim a wholehearted, meaningful life. This work is supported by daily encouraging social media posts and monthly blogs offering hope and healing. To learn more about this work, please visit survivorstothrivers.com.

Author

I believe as we make our wounds visible and available, they can be of service to the healing of others. My story of wounding, struggle, and healing encourages survivors to understand their limiting beliefs, examine unhealthy patterns and claim their going-forward stories. My experiences, concepts, and heart shine light into the darkness that surrounds abuse and trauma.

I was excited when Awakening the Light: A Survivors to Thrivers Going-Forward Story was named a 2020 American Book Fest Best Book Finalist.

Additional Books I have written are:

  • Group Growth Guide: A Ten-Week, Small Group Guide for Awakening the Light was written because having a trusted group nurturing growth together can help in the healing journey.  This Ten-Week Discussion Guide to Awakening the Light helps a small group create a safe space to grow together with grounding exercises, icebreakers, and exploration questions.

  • The Favor of Forgiveness: Find Yourself Again is a collaborative devotional book that acknowledges that forgiveness is one of the hardest and most important things we have to do. A heart that forgives is one that thrives.

  • How to Heal Our Divides Volume Two: An Abundance of Opportunities is a collaborative advocacy book raising awareness of organizations and voices taking real action to mitigate serious divides that negatively impact our society so greatly.

  • Stop the Silence: Thriving After Childhood Sexual Abuse is a collaboration of 24 authors worldwide sharing their hearts, stories, and practices to bring awareness and encourage healing. Tambry’s chapter is The Embodied Path to Truth: Healing with Mindful, Empowering Questions.

  • Love Does Not Control: Therapists, Psychologists, and Counselors Explore Uncontrolling Love is a compilation of essays that have a power that goes beyond mere theoretical reflection. The ideas in these pages have the capacity to transform our lives. Tambry’s chapter is Where is God in Healing Our Woundedness?

Are you ready to rethink what is possible for you? Let’s explore together!

TESTIMONIALS

  • “My time with Tambry launched me into the ‘next level of leadership’. I am comfortable being a leader, yet to realize the potential I believed I possessed, working with an experienced professional was essential. Together, we clearly determined my goals and explored my strengths and weaknesses. We built a leadership program specifically for me, one that I was comfortable with, and one that was applicable across the areas important for me to demonstrate leadership (in my faith, family, real estate profession, volunteer work (UNC Charlotte Trustee). It was tailored specifically to my needs with remarkable results. Being selected as a college commencement speaker was one of the many goals I was able to achieve from my leadership work with Tambry." Dennis Bunker

  • "Tambry’s approach to coaching is gentle and supportive, yet her strong intuition guides her to offer incredibly impactful tools and exercises that are truly life-changing. More than a year later, I find myself bringing our sessions to mind regularly when I need mental or emotional support. I am so lucky to have found Tambry and can say that my life is fuller and richer because of knowing her and working with her." Theresa Ward

  • "At 34 years I knew I needed to talk with someone I could trust; someone with whom I could ‘lay down’ all my thoughts, and hopefully obtain guidance for my next steps in pursuit of the question “Am I leading a fulfilled life?” I met with Tambry. I liked her approach. It appeared to me she believed I had answers to most of the questions I had come to her for; and she would help me unearth those answers. She projected herself as an augmentation of my thought process. This was quite essential to me, because my experiences in life which shape my thought processes and my definition of accomplishment will be unique to me." Dr. Kwabena Apau-Kese

  • "Tambry's Transformational coaching has been exceedingly helpful and beyond my expectations. Her caring investment in helping me identify and work with my limiting beliefs has given healing and empowering results in every session. Her good intuition and framework for coaching finds a right balance in listening, questions and guidance. I look forward to every session!" Pauline Doty

  • "Who would have thought that a relationship that began as a mentor-mentee would evolve into an ongoing helping relationship that has been instrumental in inspiring me to continue to develop into the person that God desires for me to become. If you are in need of assistance by way of Spiritual Direction or Coaching, I wholeheartedly recommend that you engage in a helping relationship with Tambry Harris!" Dr. Anthony Hodge

MY COACHING METHOD

  • Awareness

    Increase understanding of unique talents, motivators, dreams, fears and assumptions. Identify what behaviors and thought patterns are getting in the way of your success in life and the workplace.

  • alignment

    Determine what needs to shift within and around the individual to foster clear path forward and successful trajectory. Utilize a holistic approach to ensure lasting change.

  • action

    Create specific goals to navigate the go-forward path including “stretch” actions and new thought patterns leading to extraordinary results and a full, successful, thriving life.

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